纯纯的爱

今天，我读了一篇朋友的 forward email..读完后，觉得好贴心。原来，“爱”这个字在小朋友的心中是如此的可爱，如此的直接，就能深深地打动我们的心。我是觉得好感动，你们呢？

以下就是“伊蜜儿”的内容。

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 - 8 year-olds.
What does 'LOVE' means?
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.

' When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love. ' -- Rebecca - age 8
*ca 言 ：好甜蜜吧！*

' When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth. ' -- Billy - age 4
*ca 言 ：你们是这样的吗？*

' Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other. ' -- Karl - age 5
*ca 言 ：可爱到半命！*

' Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them five you any of theirs. ' -- Chrissie - age 6
*ca 言 ：这就是大人口中的“牺牲”？还是“任劳任怨”？你身边那位是这样吗？*

' Love is what makes you smile when you're tired. ' -- Terri - age 4
*ca 言 ：累了，你会笑吗？还是将疲倦和烦恼都带回家，向关心你的家人或另一半发泄？心中若有爱，笑吧！*

' Love is when my mummy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK. ' -- Danny - age 7
*ca 言 ：哈哈，突然想起我妈妈，每一次煲汤或煮菜，都会试一试，如果不好吃，就会不开心~*

' Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mummy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss ' -- Emily - age 8
*ca 言 ：热恋中，大家爱上了吻！当吻累了，或吻腻了，会不会物色另一张唇？*

' Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen. ' -- Bobby - age 7
*ca 言 ：这好有趣！对你的另一半，你有在听吗？*

' If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate. ' -- Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
*ca 言 ：6 岁小孩竟然有这种想法，佩服~ 那我也是不是应该爱爱衰神？*

' Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday. ' -- Noelle - age 7
*ca 言 ：这让我会心一笑，的确，虽然可爱，但如果他这样做，我会很开心~证明他在乎。^.^*

' Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well. ' -- Tommy - age 6
*ca 言 ：朋友之间的爱，你会忘了吗？*

' During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.

He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore. ' -- Cindy - age 8
*ca 言 ：当我们进入社会后，你有没有忘记了当年爸爸妈妈在身边保护关怀的那感觉？爸爸妈妈，我爱你们。*

' My mummy loves me more than anybody.
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night. ' -- Clare - age 6

' Love is when Mummy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken. ' -- Elaine - age 5
*ca 言 ：爸爸对妈妈的爱，看在小孩的眼里，无意间形成了小孩对爱的了解。*

' Love is when Mummy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford. ' -- Chris - age 7
*ca 言 ：就好像你的另一半肥了，你都不停说，“怎么不吃多点，你好瘦！” 哈哈！*

' Love is when you puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day ' -- Mary Ann - age 4
*ca 言 ：Lily, see! Elmo so LOVE you !! *

' I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones. ' -- Lauren - age 4
*ca 言 ：无言。。哈！*

' When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you. ' (what an image) -- Karen - age 7
*ca 言 ：小孩对爱的憧憬。*

' Love is when Mummy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross. ' -- Mark - age 6
*ca 言 ：Oh my god~*

' You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget. ' -- Jessica - age 8
*ca 言 ：好成熟~ 今天，你说 “我爱你” 了吗？别忘了也对爸爸妈妈说一声~*

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a con test he was asked to judge. The purpose of the con test was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a 4 year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
' Nothing, I just helped him cry '

得第一的4岁小孩，“爱”的很真~ 他坐在邻居的旁边哭着，胜过很多各式各样安慰的话语。当我们越长越大，忘了“爱”的真谛！“爱”不单单存在于另一半，其实“爱”是无所不在。当一个人觉得一无所有时，就是最想拥有爱的时候。这帮可爱的小鬼头，教会了很多很多大人，

爱可以很简单！